You need to be bored by your achievements...
You need to be bored by your achievements. Anything less than becoming the person so the action is effortless and an extension of your everyday self, is unsustainable and will lead to eventual burnout. To create impossible, incredible results, you need to become a vibrational match for the end step.
What does that mean?
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Leadership is like melted chocolate
Leadership can become lost in our constant, unconscious awareness that "people are watching" and contort your intentions to be more self-serving than service-oriented.
Lead, from the inside out. The way you show up for you, all the way out to the way you show up for the world.
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NLP Saved my life!
NLP is an awesome skill to have, to take you from highly functional to exceptional. But it also saved my life. Learning how to think can do that.
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Nobody will ever give you the acknowledgment you deserve
Because they have no idea of the risks you took, the years of trial and error that made you understand with such conviction, and the paralysing fear you traversed, just to get to this point…
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I triggered the f#*k out of MYSELF this time.
I dare you to go all-in on something you've been holding back on because you're afraid to be good to yourself for once.
Nobody is coming to give you permission. It means you get to decide to choose again for yourself what your stories will be, TODAY.
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3 ingredients or 'willingness-es' for a life that delights you
Willingness'-es is not a word. Except now it is. Learn that, Google. Because these ingredients are willingness-es. You have to be willing.
The three ingredients…. for a life that will delight you.
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Afraid to share your work when terrible things are happening?
Just because terrible things are happening in this world -Don't stop bringing your big-hearted, soul-led, beautiful work to the world at the risk of offending someone, or looking like you care more about yourself than the bigger world issues at heart.
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Leadership from the ground up
I never forgot that moment in that smelly little microcosm of society. It represented where freedom will come. Not from the top down. From the bottom up.
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Sex and Your Authentic Leadership:
When she said "this is literally the last place anyone wants to look when it comes to their growth, and they'll avoid it their whole lives because it's so taboo - and yet, it's the one thing that makes the biggest difference."
At that moment, I knew it was my responsibility to go there too. No matter what else that meant for my life.
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How to run big events without getting exhausted
I quit speaking for three years. I don't want you to hold back your gifts for the same reason I did. Mindset is everything.
Here are the five Mindset shifts that had me quickly up and roaring with online courses, events around the world, and a thriving business, My way.
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The thing about rushing and procrastination
Instead of feeling like you need to match the pace of the world around you - even when there are deadlines, I invite you to do this instead:
Take a deep breath - or ten.
Remember that time was made up.
Ask yourself what you need to do right now to feel massive joy, release, and an increase in energy,
Go do it.
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What to do when you want to shrink...
..So own ALL of you, and go bigger. Lean in. Stay there. If you feel like you're too much, own it. If you feel like you're too "out-there", own it. If you think there's something you need to hide in your strategy, share it. If you think "nobody is going to accept me", accept yourself, and go bigger. Let people see you as you are, in all your glory - the way you love to be - especially when nobody is watching.
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He called my work "inspirational shit"!!!
He nonchalantly called my life’s work "inspirational shit". This is what I did. So next time you're on that metaphorical bus, know this:
In every moment you have a choice.
…You can choose to let the spiteful, jealous, triggered remarks sink in as a sign to pipe down and hide away. You can catch that disease and wear it as a skin suit. …
Or, you can take it as a sign you're right where you need to be. You're shining bright enough that the people who are here for life will be able to find you, see you, seek you out and stick around.
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Self-conscious and still here.
You don't require an absence of fear to show up and do the thing, you require an absence of belief in that fear.
Maybe that fear is a great sign you're right where you need to be - and more on track than you'll ever know. Maybe, if you give it a whirl for a moment, you'll meet yourself in a new light. You'll get to experience yourself as a triumph over what you previously perceived as reality; your fear.
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Roundabout, or Foggy...One is actually AMAZING.
Foggy…The puzzle pieces are all there, but they have slowly taken shape over time, and some pieces don't make sense yet because there's stuff to learn - the goal is so big it will force you to become someone new to attain it.
First place mindset people - winners - have foggy dreams that become more comprehensive, compelling and impossibly beautiful as time goes on.
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My thoughts on starting before you're ready
…I'm also all for trusting in your timing though. ….And for a high performer, someone who is educated in their field, who has runs on the board, who understands their level of risk adversity, who already plays a big game in some way, who is self-aware, and who is deeply connected to their intuition, timing is everything.
Sometimes it makes no logical sense, and the pressure is on, but the answer is still a heart-centred, full-body, not yet.
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Resilience... redefined
Is resilience really what you think it is?
Because when you see and trust that everything is always in the right alignment, (… even when it's not the timing you want, or it doesn't go the way you want, …) there's no such thing as a problem.
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What it REALLY feels like to go to uplevel
I used to imagine when I had "made it" in business (whatever that means) it'd be something similar to what happens when you win a world title in Karate.
I remember people squealing and hugging me and shaking me and all the rest, and inside, feeling like the same person I was yesterday.
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Pray it forward
I had no idea what I was in for. I mean, I've been to a sauna before - but this was meant to be a tiny hut on the ground you sweat in for over 2 hours (I never lasted longer than about 10 minutes!) and get to temperatures up to 60 degrees Celsius! THIS IS NOT WHAT IT’S SUPPOSED TO LOOK LIKE!
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I joined a biker gang!
Often, fully living requires awkwardness, messing up, failing, being uncomfortable, scared, vulnerable, learning to use your hands in a different way or your voice in a different way, frightened of possible death and….. The only time when the fear is real, is when you let the feeling stop you from living fully.
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