Be Your Own Coach

NLP Practitioner Training & Certification

Create meaningful, lasting human change.

Next cohort begins 21 October 2026.
Enrol now and join the 4-part Accelerator Series beginning 2 September.

Enrol by Tuesday 22nd September and receive the Practitioner Business Accelerator: My Supernatural Sales Course (valued at $1997) free, the 4-part Accelerator Series beginning 2 September — and when you Pay in Full, a 90-minute 1:1 Strategic Breakthrough with Hayley + 7 days of pocket coaching (Valued at $2997).

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8 months of training · 26 live supervised practice sessions · NLP Practitioner + Master Practitioner Certification · 6 months post-course mentoring · lifetime alumni support

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An 8-month practitioner training for thoughtful coaches, and helping professionals who want to become exceptional at facilitating predictable real-world transformations.

Learn to hear what's happening underneath the story, recognise the patterns keeping a problem in place, and develop the range, precision tools, and practitioner judgement to work skilfully with what you find.

A practitioner who can hear what's not being said, where to look for answers, and how to adapt to the actual human being sitting in front of you.

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Enrol early + start with us in September

Enrol bby Tue September and receive the Practitioner Business Accelerator: My Supernatural Sales Course (valued at $1997) free, the 4-part Accelerator Series beginning 2 September — and when you Pay in Full, a 90-minute 1:1 Strategic Breakthrough with Hayley + 7 days of pocket coaching.

Enrol before the official start of BYOC and you'll also join our 4-part live Accelerator Series, beginning 2 September.

Meet our intimate group, get started and build momentum before Module 1 officially begins on 21 October. You’ll lay the foundations of your scope of practise, and begin your own personal coaching journey.

Accelerator calls: 2, 9, 16 + 21 September.

The Practitioner Business Bundle 2, 9, 16 + 21 Sep Accelerator Series — 4 live calls
Your course begins 21 October 2026 Module 1 — 8 months of live training
Where it takes you April 2027 Final call + certification requirements complete
The skill gap

You're already good at this.

You're thoughtful and perceptive. You understand people. You can see patterns. You have conversations that tickle people pink and make them stop and think.

You've probably studied mindset, behaviour, coaching, psychology, nervous system work, personal development, or another modality. Likely, several of them.

People already come to you with the big moments. They trust you.

But there’s a client on your calendar tomorrow, and somewhere underneath the prep, there's still a low-lying fear you won't be able to help them.

Not because you’re not cut out for this or you don’t help people every day - not at all. The fact you’re reading this page tells me you’re insatiably curious about being the best you can and that’s key.

It’s because deep down, you still don’t know with 100% conviction why it works when it works and it doesn’t when it doesn’t.

Sometimes you nail it, but still a part of you thinks, what exactly did I do there? Could I do it again?

You don't want great results to feel like a fluke. Or to rely solely on intuition, enthusiasm, chemistry, the gift of the gab or being naturally “good with people”.

You want 100% conviction in your skill and range, so you know with certainty your side of the fence is on point. The rest is up to the client.

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Reading the Be Your Own Coach handbook

Without that distinction, it's very difficult to get better at creating change. Over time, it becomes really draining to let hope fill the gap. You’ll overfunction.

And without that deep confidence in you and your work, growing a business is a lot harder.

Being more careful won’t help if you’re not sure what to look for. Learning another framework will add more information when you’re looking for transformation, and taking more notes? Preparing harder? It doesn’t change the fact that there’s a skill gap.

Be Your Own Coach is about closing that gap.

So you can be the kind of practitioner that can confidently facilitate meaningful, lasting human change.

Next cohort begins 21 October 2026.

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8 months of training · 26 live supervised practice sessions · NLP Practitioner Certification · 6 months post-course mentoring · Lifetime alumni support

This is for the practitioner who wants to be sure. Not hopeful.

Hopeful puts you in the same category as every other coach on the market.

Hope isn’t what people pay you for.

They want your total conviction.

And while we both know you can’t jump into someone else's body and do the work for them, you want to know exactly how to initiate meaningful change in a human who is ready, how to spot when they’re not, and how to stay steady through every inevitable up and down on the road to success - without taking anything personally.

That’s where conviction comes from.

It means you’ll raise your prices without that little flicker of Am I actually good enough to charge this? Because you know it’s worth multiples.

You stop second-guessing every choice you make in a session.

You don't panic when a client shows resistance. You know it's not a character flaw, it's a repetitive roadblock, and you have the range and the creative flexibility to work with it

Your clients feel safe enough with you to actually let the work happen.

You stop trying to force every interaction to be valuable, and start trusting the silence, the skill, the precision tools, and let your client do their part.

Ultimately:

You want to be able to recognise the patterns underneath what they're presenting with, rather than simply coaching what they're telling you.
You want enough range that when your usual approach doesn't work, you know where to go next and why.
You want your clients to know they got what they came for.
And you want the kind of confidence that comes from evidence.
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Megan Colleen Johnson

“I cannot say enough about BYOC and Hayley Carr as a trainer. This program has helped me take my foundational coaching skills and exponentially expand them far beyond what I even expected.

I am more aware of the beliefs beneath the words my clients speak, and have a massive toolkit to support them (and myself!) reach the breakthrough they desire.

This entire program is put together with such great care, heart, and skill. I honestly believe it is the best NLP program out there.


— Megan Colleen Johnson - Associate Marriage & Family Therapist, California

Be Your Own Coach isn't paint-by-numbers NLP

We're not interested in teaching you a collection of processes you can memorise, demonstrate and then call yourself certified.

IThe craft

We teach NLP as a craft.

You'll learn the tools and demonstration or competence as a baseline.

But you'll also learn to ask: What am I noticing? What might actually be happening here unconsciously? What’s the root cause of this? Why would I choose this approach? Is there anything I’m assuming to be true here without clarifying? Is this strategy creating movement? What else could I try?

Because the goal isn't to become brilliant at following a script.

It's to become brilliant at working with people.

IIThinking

How to think, not just what to do.

I don't want you leaving BYOC thinking:

Limiting belief = Technique #7.

Though yes, you'll develop that level of precision.

You’ll also be able to observe, listen, reason, choose and most importantly, adapt.

The more you learn, the less dependent you should become on scripts, or structure.

IIIExperience

Learn the work through experiencing it.

You are student, practitioner and client.

You'll experience the processes. Use them on your own patterns, problems, behaviours, and goals. Encounter your own resistance and frustrations. Practise with other humans. Get feedback. Try again.

Because you can know an enormous amount about human behaviour and still find yourself completely incapable of changing the thing you know you need to change.

This work needs to live somewhere deeper than your brain or your notebook.

IVDiscernment

And I won't ask you to swallow NLP whole.

More skill should make you more discerning, not more convinced you can fix everybody.

You are working with another autonomous human being.

We question things here.

What is this model actually saying?

Where is it useful?

What do we know for sure?

Where have claims gone beyond the evidence?

Where might something be useful without pretending it's neuroscience?

Where are the limits of this tool?

Consent matters.
Ethics matter.
Agency matters.
Scope matters.
Knowing when not to intervene matters.

I am less interested in whether you can perform NLP than whether you become an exceptional facilitator of change.

There are plenty of people who can perform NLP.

There's a galaxy between those who have a certificate and those who can practise it.

Bec Cameron

“I not only learned these practices, but I feel like they've weeded their way deep into my subconscious. I am, at my very base levels, operating from a new perspective — constantly questioning, considering the lessons learnt and implementing the tools confidently and with ease.”

The BYOC NLP Immersive was by far and away the best money that I have ever invested


— Bec Cameron - Fitness Coach for Neurodivergent Women
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Four phases.
One craft.

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01

Learn to see

Learn to see what others miss.

Start hearing more than the content of the conversation.

You'll learn how people organise their experience through language, attention, internal representations and patterns, and begin noticing what someone is saying without realising they're saying it.

You'll stop listening only for the story, and start hearing how the problem is being created and maintained.

02

Build your range

Learn how to work with what you notice.

In this phase, you'll build your toolkit.

You’ll learn different ways of working with the subconscious to create change through states, emotions, beliefs, decisions, behaviour, motivation, strategies, values, internal conflict, language, personal history and more.

So when someone says:

  • “I know this belief isn't true, but I still believe it.”
  • “I know what I need to do. I just can't make myself do it.”
  • “I understand exactly why I react like this… But I can’t help it when it happens.”
  • “I know I should be selling every day… but I am still not writing the emails”.

You have somewhere to go besides more insight, or try harder.

03

Think like a practitioner

Stop asking “Which process do I use?” and learn to think like a practitioner, case by case.

This is where everything starts coming together.

We'll take the problems people actually bring into a coaching room:

  • I have ADHD and I’ll never be able to succeed because I can’t focus.
  • I've lost my confidence.
  • I need more motivation.
  • I keep choosing the same kind of relationship.
  • I know what I should do and I cannot make myself do it.

And instead of Problem X → Process Y, I'll show you the different ways you might think about each presentation:

  • What am I hearing?
  • What is being assumed, vs what’s actually true?
  • When did they decide this?
  • Could there be a hidden reason it hasn’t worked yet?
  • Which tools might I consider?
  • In what order?
  • What changes depending on the human in front of me?

There isn't one magic process for every presenting problem. There are specific tools designed to work with specific patterns, but the same presenting problem can be created and maintained in very different ways.

Humans behave in similar ways, but the entry point to change is individual.

This is where you develop practitioner discernment.

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Embody the craft

Now put the whole thing together.

During Breakthrough Week, you'll work with the same partner across five days.

You'll take a detailed personal history. Listen. Notice. Design a personalised breakthrough using the tools you've spent months learning (with personal support). Deliver it.

Then swap seats and experience the entire process as the client.

By the end of the week, you haven't simply watched me do this work and practised every tool in isolation…

You've designed it. Delivered it. Experienced it.

Then we bring everything home through business, communication, public speaking and Be Your Own Best Coach before you complete your graduation requirements.

Want to see exactly what you'll learn?

View the full 16-module curriculum + 2026/27 live call schedule ↓

Live calls are held Wednesdays at 6:30pm AEDT/AEST and run for approximately 2 hours.

All calls are recorded and sent to you afterwards. Dates and times are provided in advance, and you'll also receive calendar invitations for the full training schedule.

VIEW THE OCTOBER 2026 CALL SCHEDULE HERE

Call times are 6:30pm – 8:30pm Sydney time (AEDT/AEST) for every call, including Breakthrough Week

Call no.SubjectDate
Early Enrolment — Accelerator Series
AC1Accelerator Call 1Wed 2 September 2026
AC2Accelerator Call 2Wed 9 September 2026
AC3Accelerator Call 3Wed 16 September 2026
AC4Accelerator Call 4Mon 21 September 2026
Core BYOC Training Begins — 21 October
1Module 1 – Welcome CallWed 21 October 2026
2Module 2 – Breakthrough ArchitectureWed 28 October 2026
3Module 3 – Reading + Leading PeopleWed 4 November 2026
4Module 4 – Beginner Neurological Rewiring Call 1Wed 11 November 2026
5Module 4 – Beginner Neurological Rewiring Call 2Wed 18 November 2026
6Module 4 – Beginner Neurological Rewiring Call 3Wed 25 November 2026
7Module 5 – Communication MasteryWed 2 December 2026
8Module 6 – Part 1 – AnchoringWed 9 December 2026
9Module 6 – Part 2 – Call 1 – EmotionsWed 16 December 2026
10Module 6 – Part 2 – Call 2 – Emotions Practise CallWed 6 January 2027
11Module 7 – Call 1 – StrategiesWed 13 January 2027
12Module 7 – Call 2 – StrategiesWed 20 January 2027
13Module 8 – Call 1 – ValuesWed 27 January 2027
14Module 8 – Call 2 – ValuesWed 3 February 2027
15Module 9 – Call 1 – Advanced RewiringWed 10 February 2027
16Module 9 – Call 2 – Advanced RewiringWed 17 February 2027
17Module 9 – Call 3 – Advanced RewiringWed 24 February 2027
18Module 10 – Call 1 – Quantum LinguisticsWed 3 March 2027
19Module 10 – Call 2 – Quantum LinguisticsWed 10 March 2027
20Module 11 – HypnosisWed 17 March 2027
21Module 12 – How To Break ThroughWed 24 March 2027
22Module 13 – The Fix-AllsWed 31 March 2027
23Breakthrough Week (5 x calls)Mon 5 – Fri 9 April 2027, 6:30pm daily
24Module 14 – The Business of CoachingWed 14 April 2027
25Module 15 – Using NLP for public speakingWed 21 April 2027
26Module 16 – Be Your Own Best CoachWed 28 April 2027
Across the eight months, you'll have: 26 × 2hr Live supervised practice & demonstration sessions 52 Hours in the room practising the actual craft 100+ High-quality training videos over eight months Hayley Carr coaching

You will practise. A lot.

This isn't one of those certifications where you watch 100 videos at 1.5x speed, tick a box and emerge with a certificate but absolutely no idea what to do when an actual human sits opposite you.

Every session follows the same rhythm:

AskWatchPractiseIntegrate

Bring your questions.

I'll demonstrate the work live so you can see what the process actually looks like with a human being — not just read the steps in a manual.

Then you'll pair up. You'll be the practitioner. You'll be the client. You'll practise the work you've just learned while I'm in the room supervising, mentoring and giving feedback where it's needed.

Then we come back together.

What happened? What did you notice? What worked? What didn't? What questions came up? What would we do differently?

And then we do it again.

This is how information becomes skill.

And if you haven't watched that week's training?

Come anyway.

You can catch up on information. You can't replace practice.

Arianna Pienaar

This program is one of the most engaging courses that I've ever done.

I showed up to almost all the LIVE sessions, not because I wanted to be the 'good student', but because I knew that by turning up, I was going to receive something that changed my cells.

The quality of the course delivery (the videos) as well as the supporting textbook and downloadable docs are exquisite. I highly recommend this program.”

— Arianna Pienaar - Holistic Medicine Practitioner & Senior leadership Development Consultant
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Hayley Carr

Hayley Carr · NLP Master Practitioner & Trainer

Meet Hayley

G’day, I’m Hayley.

I've been doing this work for 18 years. I'm still fascinated by what makes change actually last.

I’m an NLP Master Practitioner and Trainer with 18 years of professional coaching experience. I also hold a degree in something that has absolutely nothing to do with coaching, and I first learned NLP when I was struggling with my health and competing at a world-champion level in martial arts.

It helped me reboot my life, sky-rocketed my performance and I went on to break a couple of world records. I think that's a pretty neat range.

(And to be clear, I’ve since coached multiple other athletes through World Championships using this work, too. Just sayin’.)

I’m less interested in collecting more techniques than I am in understanding what actually creates change. Because we humans are curious creatures…

The questions that keep me curious

Why can someone understand exactly why they do something… and still keep doing it?

Why does something shift in five minutes when someone has been talking about it for five years?

Why can two people walk in with what sounds like exactly the same problem, and need completely different approaches?

Why do we hold onto things that don’t serve us, even when we consciously want to move on?

What makes a practitioner hear one sentence and think, hang on, there’s something in that?

And what do you do when the process that should work... doesn’t?

That’s the craft I’ve spent nearly two decades practising, studying, teaching, and training in.

I didn’t create Be Your Own Coach because I thought the world desperately needed another NLP certification. Ha! No. There are plenty.

I created it because I wanted to teach NLP the way I believe practitioner work deserves to be taught. Starting with zero hideous plastic binders.

Not just what to do, but why you’re doing it.

The process — but also, what you’re listening and looking for.

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To demonstrate competence, sure - but also how to develop it, deepen it and eventually turn that competence into artistry.

I strongly believe that before you facilitate change for anyone else, you must live and experience it yourself - so you know what it’s like to be the human on the other side of the process.

And I don’t treat every idea that has ever been associated with NLP as an unquestionable fact.

I want to teach you to question things, understand what you’re doing well enough to think for yourself, to practise rigorously until you’re no longer frantically trying to “remember Step 4”, and to develop the range to know when to use a tool, when to adapt, when to try something completely different, and to spot when the most skilful thing you can do is leave something alone.

What it all comes down to

Discernment.

After 18 years in practice, I don't think mastery means having the answer for every human being who sits in front of you.

I think it means becoming exceptionally skilled at working with whoever is sitting in front of you.

Being ferociously curious. Non-judgemental. Knowing what you know and what you don't. Having enough range to stay flexible when the obvious answer isn't the right one. And maintaining a lifelong commitment to improvement.

That's the kind of practitioner I continue to work at becoming.

And that's what I'm here to help you become, too.

Experiences that turn knowledge into practise

Inside the four phases of your supported certification, there are two specialised experiences designed to support you to take the leap from having the tools and being able to facilitate a tailored experience for someone.

01

The Fix-Alls Clinic

We'll take the real-world problems clients actually bring you, in their language, and map the different tools and approaches you could use to work with them in a customised coaching experience, tailored to the person in front of you.

Think of it as 18 years of my practitioner experience helping you connect the dots between everything you've learned.

02

Breakthrough Week

Five days. One partner. Both sides of the work.

This is where you bring everything you've learned together.

Across one supported week - in a series of focused sessions, not five full days online! - you'll work with the same partner to take a detailed history questionnaire, design, then facilitate a personalised breakthrough using the tools you've spent months learning.

Then you'll swap.

By the end of the week, you've experienced the complete process as both practitioner and client, with my support and mentoring as you put it all together.

You've designed it. Delivered it. Experienced it.

03

Six months post-course mentoring

The formal training finishes. Your development doesn't. Keep bringing questions and real-world scenarios into the room as you begin using what you've learned and deepen your understanding.

04

Lifetime access to the community

Ongoing connection, mentoring and access to practice partners long after your cohort finishes.

Everything you need to learn it, practise it + keep getting better
26 × 2hr

Live practice + mentoring sessions

Watch live demonstrations, practise as coach and client, ask questions and receive feedback as you learn.

100+

On-demand training videos

Short, high-quality training you can watch before each live session in our dedicated app or online, and return to whenever you need them.

700 pages

Your hardcover practitioner handbook

A genuinely beautiful, professionally bound reference manual containing the processes, scripts and supporting material you'll use throughout the training and beyond.

Audio

Self-coaching library

Every process is available in audio so you can experience and use the tools on yourself, not just learn how to facilitate them.

Assessments throughout the training

Every module includes a short multiple-choice, open-book assessment required for graduation, which we will support you to pass. (This is not school!) Your certification represents demonstrated understanding, not simply attendance.

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Fix-Alls Clinic + Breakthrough Week

Bring the individual tools together and learn to apply them to real humans and real presenting problems, and then experience it for yourself as a client.

6 mo

Post-course mentoring

The formal training finishes. Your development doesn't. Keep bringing questions and real-world scenarios into the room as you begin using what you've learned and deepen your understanding.

Lifetime training access + future updates

Come back whenever you need to revisit a process or refresh your knowledge. Re-attend the course live at a discounted price.

Lifetime BYOC Alumni Community

Ongoing connection, mentoring and access to practice partners long after your cohort finishes.

Combined NLP Practitioner + Master Practitioner Training & Certification

Complete both Practitioner and Master Practitioner levels within the eight-month BYOC training. Complete your assessments, Breakthrough Week and graduation requirements, and once your program balance is paid in full, you'll receive your digital NLP Practitioner certificate.

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A dedicated space for BIPOC participants

Some of the work we explore in BYOC can touch identity, lived experience and things you may not want to unpack with me or in the wider group.

So alongside the main training, BIPOC participants have access to 3–4 additional private, unrecorded calls with Delphine Lebrun (she/they).

There are no white participants and no recordings.

It's a dedicated space to talk about the processes, explore anything the training brings up, and receive coaching from Delphine in a room specifically held for BIPOC participants.

Meet Delphine

Delphine is a Somatic and Erotic Coach who works with people living with marginalised identities. As an Afro-descendant, autistic and non-binary person living in Switzerland, they bring both professional expertise and lived experience to the space.

2026/27 call dates to be confirmed.

Delphine Lebrun

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Fiona Leonard

“BYOC changed the way I work with my clients and the way I work with myself.

The beauty of the experience is that not only do you get to spend 8 months with Hayley absorbing all she has to teach, you also come away with an amazing tool kit you have for life and some fine skills to be your own coach.”


— Fiona Leonard, Naturopath, Melbourne
Valerie

BYOC has changed my life.

It changed the way I see and interact with the world around me. It changed the way I listen, the way I respond, what I believe about myself and what I believe I can have.

I've unhooked emotions and changed decisions in so many areas of my life.

Since I started the course, my life has quietly rearranged in ways that I previously thought were impossible. And I have these tools for a lifetime.”


— Valerie, Vermont

What changes?

Eight months later, you've practised. You've been supervised. You've been the practitioner. You've been the client. You've seen yourself create change, and you've had breakthroughs of your own.

You now hear things you wouldn't have heard before, because you're listening differently. You see patterns you might have missed because you're no longer listening for the problem to solve, you're listening for what's creating it.

You have more inroads and entry points to change for different people, and the judgement to know where you might begin.

You don't just know more about coaching, You can facilitate lasting human change, and you've got receipts.

You’ve got a trust in yourself and your craft you can carry to every conversation and piece of marketing forever more.

Increasingly, the work becomes how you listen, think and respond, rather than something you need to look up in your notes.

And because you've spent eight months experiencing the work yourself, you leave with tools you can use on your own patterns, decisions, reactions and goals for the rest of your life. Which is highly encouraged as an ongoing self-coaching practice.

Most importantly, after months of immersion, practise, and real-world experience, you have something a certificate alone can't give you:

Evidence.

And that evidence creates a particularly magnetic kind of confidence.

You trust your craft.

You know what you can do. You know where your responsibility begins and ends. And you know you’ll keep getting better. Your side of the fence is clean.

You’ve become the kind of practitioner you’d want to hire yourself.

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Ashlynn Abrahams

“I now feel like I don’t have to look outside of myself for answers or to other people for that ‘thing that is missing’.

Having NLP in my toolkit is making my coaching so much more meaningful & impactful.

Hayley is an incredible teacher, she is a charismatic & real individual who knows how to make you feel seen, heard & valued just as you are.

This course has been an incredible support for me after a few tough & 'interesting' years, I didn’t want it to end. Everything is even more interesting through this new NLP lens of life.”


— Ashlynn Abrahams - NLP Coach & Yoga Teacher, Blue mountains Yoga
The investment

Choose the payment option that works best for you.

Enrol before Friday 4 September and receive the Practitioner Business Accelerator: My Supernatural Sales Course (valued at $1997) free, the 4-part Accelerator Series beginning 2 September — and when you Pay in Full, a 90-minute 1:1 Strategic Breakthrough with Hayley + 7 days of pocket coaching.

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When you pay in full, you'll also receive:

A private 90-minute 1:1 session with me
Use this for your own breakthrough, practitioner development, business, or wherever having my eyes and brain exclusively on you would be most useful.

7 days of private Whatsapp “Hayley-In-Your-Pocket” access
A week of direct access to me for questions, coaching, integration and support.

Payment plan

10 month payment plan — $850/month
Total investment: $8,500

You don't need to wait 10 months to graduate. You can pay out the remaining balance at any time once you've completed your graduation requirements.

Your NLP Practitioner certificate is issued once all graduation requirements are complete and your program balance has been paid in full.

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Please fully consider your purchase before you say yes. This is a commitment made of time, money, energy and focus.

I can’t wait to see you in our next class!
If you have any more questions, please contact hola@hayleycarr.tv


Natalie Roberts

This course created next level abundance and growth for myself and my family.

The pace of the course flowed like water around my life. As a mum of two girls (one who lives with a disability) my time is often full, so this was important for me. I was able to follow comfortably and use the NLP tools in so many areas of my life. Saying yes at the time felt like a huge leap, but my intuition knew this was the right step forward.

I not only manifested a dream home for our family, set in nature, adaptive friendly and close to the beach, but I was also able to lean on the NLP tools, group support and training in times of personal challenge.

I have so much gratitude for Hayley and this incredible course, and most of all for the powerful ripple effect of positive change it has created not only for myself, my family, but also my clients. It's been revolutionary.


— Natalie Roberts, Coach, Mentor, Speaker
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FAQ

Here are some of the most commonly asked questions. If there is anything else you need to know, please don’t hesitate to contact us via email at hola@hayleycarr.tv, or via the contact page on this website.

Do I need to already be a coach or practitioner?

No.

BYOC is designed for people who are already working with humans or are seriously intending to. NLP was my first certification and introduction to coaching, and I’m so glad it was - and it’s still the main tool I use today, 18 years later.

You don't need years of coaching experience or an existing business. You do need to be genuinely interested in developing the skill to work with people well, and willing to practise.

If you're already an experienced coach, practitioner or helping professional, you'll have plenty of existing experience to apply the work to as you learn.

What if I already have coaching, psychology, counselling or other practitioner training?

Brilliant. Bring it.

BYOC isn't asking you to throw away everything you already know and replace it with NLP.

You'll learn another way of listening, thinking about patterns and facilitating change, and develop a substantial toolkit you can integrate with your existing skills and scope of practice.

In fact, much of the richness of the training comes from learning to think across what you already know, rather than collecting another isolated methodology.

We have had psychiatrists, psychologists, somatic practitioners, space-holders, the founder of a wonderful coaching school, as well as personal trainers, naturopaths, business coaches, marketers, people working for government, entrepreneurs, CEO’s, parents with high needs children, bodyworkers, doulas, lawyers, and so many others come through the doors here and use it as a complementary skill to what they’re doing.

Many weren’t even sure how they’d use it when they started, and found they used it every day in their field.

What if I've already studied NLP?

This depends on what you've studied and what you're looking for.

If you already have NLP training but still find yourself wondering which process do I use?, relying heavily on scripts, or wanting more practice applying the tools to actual humans, there's likely plenty here for you.

Many of our students have taken NLP training in the past, and loved this one. One student called it a “corrective experience”.

BYOC isn't built around simply knowing the techniques.

It's built around learning to practise the craft, and use it daily.

How much time will I need?

There are 26 live two-hour practice sessions across the eight months, plus the on-demand training and your own practice.

You're encouraged to watch the relevant training before each live session, but I don't want you to think that falling behind on videos means falling out of the program.

Haven't watched the training? Come anyway.

Practising matters more than anything.

You'll also need additional time during Breakthrough Week, but this is not five full days online. You'll complete a series of focused sessions across the whole week with your partner for a few hours per day.

To give you a weekly ballpark, allow 5-6 hours. Some weeks it will be less. And most of that will be listening to, watching or reading the content, which many play via the app and listen while they walk, commute or do chores.

What if I can't make every live session?

Life happens. You don't need perfect attendance to graduate.

All live sessions are recorded and sent to you afterwards. If you miss one, you're encouraged to connect with someone else in the group and make up the practice that week, or during one of our scheduled breaks from live calls.

What matters is that you do the work and practise the processes, not that I police your Zoom attendance.

Breakthrough Week is a required component of your certification. If you genuinely can't attend the scheduled week, we'll make alternative arrangements for you to complete the equivalent practical work.

So yes, you can miss a call.

You just can't skip the practice and still call yourself a practitioner.

What happens if I fall behind on the videos?

Come to the live call anyway.

Seriously.

The trainings are there to prepare you, but I would much rather have you in the room asking questions, watching the demonstration and practising than hiding because you're three videos behind.

You have lifetime access to the training, so you can catch up. Don't let being behind stop you from participating, it’s way more motivating to learn via doing!

What if I’m skeptical about parts of NLP?

Good. Bring your curiosity.

NLP gets a bad rap for some good reasons.

Some of the claims historically associated with NLP go beyond what the evidence supports. Some of its language and techniques have also been appropriated into worlds like pickup artistry and manipulative persuasion — which has done the field no favours.

We'll talk about that.

We'll ask: What is this model actually saying? Where is it useful? What do we know? Where have claims gone beyond the evidence? Where are the limitations? What's lore, and what do we actually know in practice?

I want you to leave BYOC more discerning, not more dogmatic.

You don't need to believe everything you're taught.

In fact, I'd prefer you didn't.

When do I receive my certificate?

BYOC is a combined NLP Practitioner and Master Practitioner training, so you'll complete both levels within the eight-month program.

Once you've successfully completed the required training, assessments, Breakthrough Week and graduation requirements, you'll receive your NLP Practitioner + Master Practitioner Certification.

Your digital certificate is issued once all graduation requirements are complete and your program balance has been paid in full.

If you're using an extended payment plan and finish the training before your payments do, that's completely fine. You can continue your scheduled payments, or pay out the remaining balance early if you'd like your certificate sooner.

How long do I have access to the training?

Lifetime.

You'll retain lifetime access to the training materials and future updates, as well as the BYOC alumni community for ongoing connection, mentoring and finding practice partners.

You'll also receive six months of post-course mentoring after the core eight-month training finishes.

Graduation, much like becoming a black belt, is just the beginning!

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Learn the craft with us.

You don't need to know everything about people.

I certainly don’t.

But you can learn to listen more deeply. See more clearly. Have more ways to work with what you find. Give your clients more choice when they’re convinced they’ve hit their edge.

To know why you’re doing what you’re doing, even when it doesn't go to plan.

To practise until the tools become part of how you think, even for yourself.

And become exceptionally skilled at facilitating the change your clients came to you for.

That’s lifelong work, but this is a significant part of it.

If you are ready, I'd love to teach you.

Be Your Own Coach begins 21 October 2026.


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Combined NLP Practitioner + Master Practitioner Training & Certification · 8 months · 26 live supervised practice sessions · 6 months post-course mentoring · lifetime access