How to get back into the flow of Life
What a gorgeous day it is... well, if you are feelin' the flow, that's for sure.
Y'know, sometimes, things just feel stagnant. Blocked. Stale.
Sometimes, you're ready to move ahead, but you don't know which road to take!
Todays video is the answer. And, if you are in flow, and you want to know how you got there, watch on my friend, because this one's a repeatable.
You need to take note of those ideas that come to you and run with them even if it is a tiny step. Being in the the flow means you are totally connected, you understand the messages the world is giving to you and you listen to your heart.
I talk about your fears and desires and give you another challenge for you to get you into the flow.
I gave you a pretty scary challenge in last week’s post, “How to Banish Your To-do List and Create” which I got some really amazing feedback from - a lot of people said they felt totally liberated, and able to think clearly for the first time in ages - happy days! That's exactly what it was designed to do...
Here is the content from this video:
So you might notice something a little different about me like, whoo, I've got short hair, I cut it off last week, if you're a subscriber to my newsletter, you would have seen the photo and know, if you're not a subscriber, come on over to Haleycarr.tv and sign up, you would know that I went into the hairdresser, with long hair, only intending to get it trimmed and decided on the spot to just cut it, and that's what I did. Let me tell you something, it makes you feel so alive to make those decisions, and I want you to feel the same.
So this week is a very simple video and I have a very specific action challenge for you. You know those moments when you've got one of those ideas that just comes out of nowhere, you don't know what it means you don't know where it's from, it doesn't really make sense, it's not really logical, but you just had the idea.
This week I want you to take that idea and just run with it. You don't have to go all the way, you can just take one little step towards it, but this is my, elegant, really cute little tip for ways for you to get into the flow, when you're in flow, you are totally connected, you understand the messages that the world is giving you, you feel connected to yourself in your body and you listen to your heart, all the time. That's how you're in flow.
That's one of the biggest ways that I feel in flow and I'm not necessarily referring to in a work sense today, what I'm talking about is in life. Too many times I see people have great ideas of things that they want to do, places that they want to go, whatever, and they sit back and analyze it for so many years and never actually do anything about it.
But here's the trick. You can't connect the dots for what something really means for you that's happening in your life, or is about to happen until it's happened already, meaning you can't connect the dots forwards, you can only connect them in hindsight and backwards. So by taking these ideas and running with them, you're actually taking a step forward, allowing you to look backwards, and the reason why I say those random ideas, is because of this; I believe there are three things that give us a huge indication for what we're supposed to move forward on…
is our fear.
is our desires, and
is our jealousy.
Let's discuss fears first. So the things that you fear, are not the same as the things that your neighbor fears, you have completely different set of fears. Think about it. Some people are scared of spiders. Some people are scared of heights, but not necessarily everybody is scared of both. So why is it that you fear something that's completely different to the next person?
Or perhaps I should talk about your desire and then you might understand. One of my old mentors Joey Martin used to say the word desire comes from the Latin word de siderum, meaning from the stars. In other words, the things that you desire, are the things you are supposed to have, which is exactly the same reason why you don't desire the same things as the next person.
So it's kind of the same with your fears, the things that you fear, are the things you are supposed to fear. Meaning, don't run away from them, step right into them and break through them, it's part of your journey and it's part of your growth.
The third is jealousies, and we've spoken about this in a previous blog post, when you're jealous, or you have comparison influenza as I've previously called it, it just means that universe is giving you a really good indication that somebody else has already got something that you desire. It's like a little fire burning up in your belly, reminding you to take some more action forward so you can have the same thing.
So these are three really cool indicators to just pay attention to, to help you get into the flow and understand where sometimes these really random ideas come from.
So this week your action challenge is to take that random idea that's been niggling away in the back of your mind maybe it's big, maybe it's small, and just do it. Remember, you can never connect the dots going forwards, you can only connect them looking backwards. So sitting back and pondering something and wondering why you have a crazy idea is not going to serve you, just go ahead and do it and see how you feel afterwards.
This is a scary action challenge just like last week, but it's okay. When you look back, you realize that it's nothing to be afraid of and there are no mistakes. If anything, it makes you feel so alive, just to take action and move forward so if you need help with this one, feel free to contact me and I really want you to leave a comment below and tell me what your big weird action is that you're going to do this week, you don't have to do the whole thing just maybe booking that trip or go to the hairdresser's or talk to that person or delete that person or whatever it is for you.
If you liked this video then please share the love on social media with your friends, or come subscribe to my YouTube channel, if you know anybody who would really benefit from this video today, and please send them an email with a link to this video in it. And if you never want to miss an episode again and you want free weekly coaching for me. Then come on over to Haleycarr.tv and sign up to my VIP Community
Feel free to contact me or leave comment below this video and let me know what you're big idea is that you're now following up on.
This week, I am going to start culling my wardrobe and posessions. EEK! It's a little scary, and really, who knows why I want to do it, I just feel like there's some growth in that for me. I'm sure there'll be another post on it soon.
Have a magical Day!
Stay Curious, Stay open. The life you crave is so much closer than you think.
