You Always Know What To Do


You always know.

You may think for a little while that you don’t.

You may even tell yourself the story of confusion. I’m confused. I don’t know what I want.

Yes, you do.

Underneath it all, you do.

Confusion is a story that allows you to procrastinate.

You’re fearful of saying it.

Fearful of making the wrong choice, before you’ve made it.

Fearful of getting hurt.

Fearful of hurting someone you love.

Fearful of losing someone or something or

Walking away and not being ok to do it this way after all.

And the big one,

Fearful of not knowing who you are with what you actually want.

But It’s OK.

You always know what you want

Trust yourself.

You always know.

And you can do it.

If you can dream it, there’s a way.

This is life.

There is only ever uncertainty.

So go for the things you want.

You’re much better off failing at something you wanted,

than something you didn’t anyway.

Holding onto something you do not truly want is in misalignment with the world.

You know if you want it.

You know.

Take a deep breath.

Sit back in your chair.

If there was nothing stopping you,

If everyone was going to be OK,

If you could do it and know it was going to work.

If the stars aligned, and nobody gets hurt.

If you were going to be a more brilliant version of you,

Shining Brighter than ever when you assert your choice…

What would your answer be?

… you already know. It’s that one.

The one that makes you feel bigger. Expansive. Free.

Trust yourself. It’s OK.

Learn to remember this.

And next time you’re confused,

Remember, you know. You always know already.

Don’t be afraid to be bold.

And stand up for yourself,

And ask for exactly what you want.

And gracefully (or not so) let go of the things you don’t.

You have always been OK

You always will be.

And when you learn this,

and live it,

every day

every moment

Your life will take leaps of loveliness.

You will be the living embodiment of truth

And then,

And only then

Will you have the life of your dreams.

Just be brave and Go for it.

…Question for you.

What if…

What if from now on, you just did what makes you happy?

Like, all the time.

What does that look like for you?

Leave me a comment below…


Hayley x x