What No One Tells You About Becoming Exceptional - Ep 87
What No One Tells You About Becoming Exceptional
and the Self-Coaching Skill That’ll Get You There
Episode 87 - Available 2 may 2025
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When everything looks fine, but something still feels off
You’re showing up. Doing the work. Hitting the marks.
But something’s not sitting right.
The energy is different. So is the pace.
You’re not broken. You’re not behind.
You’re just stepping into a new space that doesn’t have a lot of language around it.
That space is the gap between high-functioning and exceptional.
What becoming exceptional actually feels like
It’s not fireworks.
It’s not a sudden rush of clarity.
It’s not what gets shared in highlight reels.
It’s quieter. More internal. Often confusing.
You start noticing that old tools don’t land the same.
You feel yourself stretching away from people or spaces that once felt like home.
You’re not less driven. You’re not out of touch.
You’ve just outgrown what used to fit.
This is where discomfort lives.
And where real growth begins.
Mastery isn’t built from hype. It’s built from precision
Most of us are taught to solve stagnation by doing more.
Add another strategy. Push harder. Move faster.
But becoming exceptional isn’t about effort.
It’s about refinement.
This is where high-functioning hits its limit.
Because performance has a ceiling.
Precision doesn’t.
The shift happens when you stop adding and start subtracting.
What’s no longer working.
What you’ve outgrown.
What keeps you in motion but not in mastery.
Quiet confidence comes from this place.
So does depth.
So does clarity.
Self-coaching is the skill that lets you hold more without burning out
Not the motivational quote version.
The kind that meets you at 3am when everything wobbles.
The kind that doesn’t reach for advice or distraction.
The kind that helps you stay present enough to ask what’s really going on.
This isn’t about fixing yourself.
This is about learning to listen.
When you know how to self-coach, you build capacity.
To sit in uncertainty.
To stretch without snapping.
To lead without abandoning your own voice.
That’s the skill most people don’t learn.
It’s also the one that makes all the difference.
This season might feel like you’re standing still
You’ve stopped chasing what used to matter.
You haven’t yet landed on what’s next.
It’s tempting to fill the space with noise.
Don’t.
This isn’t lost.
It’s transition.
Most people rush this part or label it wrong.
But this is the threshold.
The place between high-functioning and mastery.
The part where you don’t feel like yourself, because you’re not who you were,
And you’re not yet who you’re becoming.
You’re building a new foundation. One that actually fits.
If this is where you are, here’s your next step
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You don’t have to make sense of the unknown straight away.
You just have to stay with it.
You're not off track.
You're ahead of your own curve.
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